Payoffs that keep us stuck

There is a lot one can do with personal power at their disposal. One way of increasing personal power, is to take responsibility for yourself and your life. I came across this suggestion in one of my readings, which suggests that;

“being aware of the payoffs that keep us stuck (payoffs explain why we choose . . . → Read More: Payoffs that keep us stuck

Empathetic Support vs “Enabling”: An argument for support

This is an interesting theme which seems to come up a lot with people who don’t understand the decisions, choices and behaviours, that others make. These people make the judgment that the other person has made a poor decision, and they simply can’t support that decision. This means the agency of the other person is not respected, and more often than not, the responses towards that person become less than empathetic and come across as judgmental, criticisng, condescending, harassing (pressure) or paternalistic. . . . → Read More: Empathetic Support vs “Enabling”: An argument for support